【織女星的Ivo】控制，而不是關心；關於 我們在這裡討論了很多要點，讓我們總結一下

織女星的Ivo信息：

關於：控制，而不是關心.

傳導作者：Sharon Stewart.

譯者：pfcchina.於2020年11月30日.

I was going to let this one thing go but as it turns out there could be a huge lesson on honoring others' free will here from Ivo, so, yet again, I'll tell you what happened today.

我本來打算放棄這件事，但事實證明，從伊沃那裡可以學到尊重他人自由意志的重要一課，所以，我再一次告訴你們今天發生了什麼。

I keep forgetting… I put up a post today that was talking about people who try to get you to join their religion. They send flyers, they try to talk you into it, and then there are the family members who have all but ignored you for years who suddenly take an interest in you again, and they have a track record of trying to convert you to their religion because they're a minister.

我老是忘記... ... 今天我貼了一個帖子，說的是那些試圖讓你加入他們宗教的人。他們發傳單，試圖說服你這麼做，然後有些家庭成員幾年來幾乎忽視了你，突然又對你產生了興趣，他們有試圖讓你皈依他們宗教的記錄，因為他們是牧師。

I was talking to Ivo, who prompted me to write this last comment:

"This is the Matrix and these are its minions. Any act done to pull someone back into the system of control is NOT A LOVING ACT."

I was thinking this was a bit harsh. But he insisted it wasn't. I was thinking, well, maybe they think they're actually doing you a favor or they're concerned about you. To which he replied, "Did they ask you if you were interested? If not, they're being controlling, not caring, because they are violating your free will." All you have to do is say "no" and they should move on, however people on this planet, bug, badger, or stalk people who they want to control.

我正在和伊沃談話，他促使我寫下最後一條評論: "這是母體，這些是它的奴才。任何把人拉回控制系統的行為都不是充滿愛的行為。"我覺得這有點太苛刻了。但他堅持說不是。我在想，嗯，也許他們認為他們實際上是在幫你的忙，或者他們關心你。他回答說: "他們問你有沒有興趣？如果不是，他們就是在控制你，而不是關心你，因為他們侵犯了你的自由意志。"你所要做的就是說"不" ，他們應該繼續前進，無論這個星球上的人，蟲子，獾，或者跟蹤他們想要控制的人。

This is serious stuff because this is just one of the ways in which being controlling is misconstrued for being caring. And that is rampant in our world because we don't follow universal law nor do we honor others' free will. These people are coming from a place of thinking they know what's best for you and you don't. For those who follow me who are in the 12 steps, this is akin to their believing they are your higher power. No, they're not! Let someone be your higher power and you're setting yourself up to feel powerless because your will will always re-assert itself. You will end up in self conflict when it does. You could even have flashbacks to your original abuse. Who needs it? I say.

這是很嚴肅的事情，因為這只是控制被誤解為關心的方式之一。這種現象在我們的世界裡很猖獗，因為我們不遵循普遍規律，也不尊重他人的自由意志。這些人認為他們知道什麼對你最好，而你不知道。對於那些跟隨我的12個步驟的人，這類似於他們相信他們是你的更高的力量。不，他們不是！讓別人成為你更高的力量，你會讓自己感到無能為力，因為你的意志總是會重新顯現自己。當它發生的時候，你最終會陷入自我衝突。你甚至可以回想起你最初的虐待。誰需要它？我說。

Yes, since the summer, the religious people have been becoming concerned about me. Imagine that, a woman living on her own with nobody to speak to all day. She's tired, overweight, walks with a cane, and sleeps many hours a day. So she must have a horrible life, right? Wrong! I've never felt more alive than I have now, doing the work I do, and I have something to look forward to when I get up in the morning rather than going to a job. I look forward to having peace and quiet! That is the gift of my every day life! I LOVE IT! I love doing this, I love learning about metaphysics, esoterics and everything else Ivo, Ashtar and El Morya tell us, and it's only going to get better next year and beyond. Of course these people don't know what I do, and if I told them, they'd really be concerned because mind control would tell them I'm a raving nutcase. Aliens don't exist, and they're certainly not running the planet! If I try to argue evidence is even in the bible, they'd still tell me otherwise. It's all mind control. All of it is.

是的，從夏天開始，信教的人就開始關心我了。想像一下，一個女人獨自生活，整天沒有人說話。她又累又胖，拄著枴杖走路，一天睡好幾個小時。所以她的生活一定很糟糕，對吧？錯了！我從來沒有像現在這樣感到充滿活力，做著我現在所做的工作，當我早上起床而不是去工作的時候，我有一些期待。我期待著平靜和安寧！這就是我每天生活的禮物！我愛它！我喜歡這樣做，我喜歡學習玄學，深奧理論以及伊沃，阿斯塔和 El Morya 告訴我們的其他東西，而且這只會在明年和以後變得更好。當然，這些人不知道我是做什麼的，如果我告訴他們，他們會非常擔心，因為精神控制會告訴他們我是個胡言亂語的瘋子。外星人根本不存在，他們當然也不是這個星球的主宰！如果我試圖證明聖經中有證據，他們還是會告訴我不是這樣的。這都是精神控制。

It's not worth it to even discuss it.

所有的一切都不值得討論。

So I let them think what they want about me, but because they think however they want about me, then they have the need to fix me so they won't think the same ideas about me anymore.

所以我讓他們想想他們想要我怎麼樣，但是因為他們想怎麼樣就怎麼樣，然後他們需要修復我，這樣他們就不會再對我有同樣的想法了。

Ivo: Correct, my love. They try to fix you because their thoughts about your life are off the mark. So they try to change your life so that they can feel better. It is completely selfish. This is projection. They see in you the faults they should be correcting within themselves.

伊沃：沒錯，親愛的。他們試圖修復你，因為他們對你生活的想法是錯誤的。所以他們試圖改變你的生活，這樣他們會感覺更好。這完全是自私的。這就是投射。他們在你身上看到了他們自己應該糾正的缺點。

Me: Wow. Yeah, my mother was like that. She'd try to fix me because then she wouldn't have to worry so much. She didn't have to worry at all. It's just that she was so engulfed in fear that she was afraid for me. Every time an IRA bomb went off in London, I had to call her because she was sure that each bomb had my name on it. This is either a manipulation or my mother was a bit paranoid.

我: 哇。是的，我母親就是這樣。她會試著治好我，因為這樣她就不用那麼擔心了。她根本不用擔心。只是她被恐懼包圍了，她為我感到害怕。每次愛爾蘭共和軍的炸彈在倫敦爆炸，我都得給她打電話，因為她確信每個炸彈上都有我的名字。這要麼是操縱，要麼是我母親有點偏執。

Ivo: Perhaps both, my dear. Paranoid people are manipulative.

伊沃：也許兩者都有，親愛的。偏執狂都是控制狂。

Me: Yeah, it has to do with their glasses. Either they're rose colored or they're dark glasses and people who think I need to be saved from myself, I guess, have dark colored glasses on. I don't think my mother was entirely manipulative, perhaps she did it just because she wanted to know I was okay. I did call her.

我: 是的，和他們的眼鏡有關。要麼是玫瑰色的，要麼是墨鏡，我猜，那些認為我需要被拯救的人，戴著墨鏡。我不認為我的母親是完全的控制慾，也許她這樣做只是因為她想知道我是好的。我給她打過電話。

Ivo: So you allowed yourself to be manipulated by a woman who was unreasonably fearful that you would die. Very well. That is your choice.

伊沃：所以你任由一個毫無道理地擔心你會死的女人操縱你。很好。那是你的選擇。

Me: Yes. I tried to tell her that I wasn't going to die over there, but then one time my train did come in just after a bomb went off at Waterloo station, I think. I was five minutes later than the bomb. So that time I was pretty close.

我:

是的。我試圖告訴她我不會死在那裡，但是有一次我的火車在滑鐵盧車站公園的一個炸彈爆炸後進站了，我想。我比炸彈晚了五分鐘。所以那次我很接近了。

Ivo: Still, you are here now. And my point is, if you continue to allow yourself to be manipulated, you are not doing them any favors as well.

伊沃: 但是，你現在還在這裡。我的觀點是，如果你繼續允許自己被操縱，你也不會給他們帶來任何好處。

Me: True. (I was just reminded that my Vegan mother, Vary, let me come here, but she did because she knew I could handle it.)

我:

沒錯。(我只是想起了我的素食主義媽媽瓦利，讓我來這裡，但是她來了，因為她知道我可以應付得來。)

Ivo: It is not your job to change people's feelings about yourself. This is codependent. To behave a particular way so others will not be upset with you is their control over you and your compliance. This is not your job to do this. It is their job to change their feelings. Spending your life in someone else's head is not your jurisdiction. You are all self governing and you need to step into that power. Acquiring mastery over your fears is step one.

伊沃：改變別人對自己的看法不是你的工作。這是相互依賴的。以一種特定的方式行事，這樣別人就不會對你感到不安，這是他們對你的控制和你的順從。這不是你的工作。他們的工作就是改變他們的感受。在別人的腦子裡過一輩子不在你的管轄範圍內。你們都是自我管理的，你們需要進入那種力量。克服恐懼是第一步。

You must also ask yourself why they are so concerned about you when you are not concerned. There is caring for others but to involve yourself in other people's lives is a bad idea. Why is it a bad idea? Why go around fixing everyone you believe to be broken? Why not have a look at your own life and keep working on yourself instead? This is not selfish; this is what you incarnated to do. If, in fact, somebody asks you for help, then you decide whether you want to help them or not. But first of all, you are all here to improve your own lot in life.

你也必須問問自己，當你不關心的時候，為什麼他們如此關心你。有關心他人，但把自己捲入他人的生活是一個壞主意。為什麼這是個壞主意？為什麼要到處去修理那些你認為壞掉的人呢？為什麼不審視一下自己的生活，繼續為自己努力呢？這不是自私，這是你化身為人的目的。事實上，如果有人向你尋求幫助，你就要決定是否要幫助他們。但是首先，你們都在這裡是為了改善你們自己的命運。

When you raise your own frequency, you automatically help others at a collective level.

當你提高了自己的頻率，你就自動地在集體層面上幫助了其他人。

So many people are so concerned about helping others yet they involve themselves in gossip, backstabbing, arguing, bad moods, complaining and the like, but they feel they have something to offer another. Perhaps, but then should you not first work at eliminating this negativity within yourself before you decide you are your brother's helper?

很多人都非常關心幫助別人，但是他們也參與到流言蜚語，背後中傷，爭吵，壞心情，抱怨等等中，但是他們覺得他們可以給別人提供一些東西。也許吧，但是在你決定成為你兄弟的幫手之前，難道你不應該先消除自己內心的這種消極情緒嗎？

Your people do not understand the reality of life. You are given a life in order to work on yourself. So many skip doing this in favour of meddling in the lives of others, because their ego's tell them that they are superior. Anyone who lives within the Matrix and its limited mindset is prone to being this way.

你們的人民不瞭解生活的現實。你被賦予生命是為了改變你自己。所以許多人跳過這一步，而是為了干涉別人的生活，因為他們的自我意識告訴他們，他們是優越的。任何生活在矩陣中的人和它有限的思維模式都傾向於這種方式。

Were these people to think for a second, they would find that their negative idea about your life comes from their own negative ideas of life because if they did not believe these ideas to be true, they could not assign them to you. Their impression of you is created from their own negative mindset. If they had a positive mindset, they would perceive you completely differently.

如果這些人稍微思考一下，他們會發現他們對你生活的負面想法來自於他們對生活的負面想法，因為如果他們不相信這些想法是正確的，他們就不能將這些想法賦予你。他們對你的印象是由他們自己的消極心態造成的。如果他們有一個積極的心態，他們會完全不同的看待你。

Me: I know.

我:

我知道。

Ivo: You exercise your right to self governance with an iron hand, my love, and you need to because those with incorrect mindsets see you as flawed. You are all perfect, you were made perfect because you are part of God. How can you be flawed? The fact that you perceive yourselves as flawed is because of your low frequency, and it is raising your frequency that should be the focus of your life. Now, there are those who wish to help others. In a world where food bank donations are solicited, the poor are living on the streets, there are drug and alcohol problems which are rampant, why worry about an older woman who refuses your help? Go somewhere where it is needed. Care for the animals.

伊沃: 親愛的，你用鐵腕手段行使自我管理的權利，你需要這樣做，因為那些持有不正確思維的人認為你有缺陷。你們都是完美的，你們都是完美的，因為你們是神的一部分。你怎麼會有缺陷呢？事實上，你們認為自己有缺陷是因為你們的低頻率，它正在提高你們的頻率，這應該是你們生活的焦點。現在，有些人希望幫助別人。在一個需要食物銀行捐款的世界裡，窮人們流落街頭，毒品和酒精問題猖獗，為什麼要擔心一個拒絕你幫助的老女人呢？去需要它的地方。照顧動物。

Me: If I need my super's help, I call him. And he goes to fix the taps or helps me to install the air conditioner but that's all I need him for.

我: 如果我需要管理員的幫助，我會打電話給他。他去修水龍頭或幫我安裝空調，但這就是我需要他的全部。

Maybe he had one of those super mothers who refused his help and this is just a loop that he's playing out with me. Who knows?

也許他有一個超級媽媽拒絕了他的幫助，這只是他和我玩的一個循環。誰知道呢?

Ivo: Exactly. And that should clue him in to the fact that you are capable of asking for his help. Yet he still is overbearing and tries to solicit his religion upon you because he determines your way of life to be flawed. The only way he can do this is by seeing it as flawed so his mindset must be corrected.

伊沃：沒錯。這會讓他知道你有能力向他尋求幫助。然而他仍然專橫，並試圖向你懇求他的宗教，因為他決定你的生活方式是有缺陷的。他能做到這一點的唯一方法，就是認為這是有缺陷的，因此他的心態必須得到糾正。

Yes. I get very tired of dealing with people like this. I know what I'm doing. If I need help, I ask for it. What I find a lot of these people are trying to do is to reintegrate me into society in some way. Well, that's the last thing I want! I'm a societal drop out and in doing that I've found my peace!

是的。我厭倦了和這樣的人打交道。我知道我在做什麼。如果我需要幫助，我會尋求幫助。我發現很多這樣的人正在嘗試以某種方式讓我重新融入社會。這是我最不想看到的！我是一個社會退出者，在這樣做的過程中，我找到了自己的平靜！

Ivo: You live in duality, and because of the intense negativity that has prevailed on earth for so long, your people are in danger of being taken off the soul matrix. So many who dance with the Illuminati already have lost their soul connection and have become parasitical in nature, dependent on others to survive. That is not the way of God. They have become evil which when spelled backwards is "live". That is not by coincidence.

伊沃：你們生活在二元性中，因為強烈的消極性已經在地球上盛行了這麼長時間，你們的人們正處於被從靈魂矩陣中帶走的危險之中。所以許多與光照派共舞的人已經失去了他們的靈魂連接，在自然界變得寄生，依賴他人生存。這不是上帝的方式。他們已經變得邪惡，如果把它倒過來拼寫就是"活著"。這並非巧合。

Does this surprise you when so many of you are spending days vampiring energy from more energetic others with better soul connection? There are so many with parasitic attachments who siphon their energy so in turn, these humans become vampiric in nature and siphon energy off of higher energetic humans.

當你們中的許多人花費數天時間從更有活力和更好的靈魂連接的其他人那裡吸取能量時，這是否讓你感到驚訝？有如此多帶有寄生性附屬物的人們依次吸取他們的能量，因此，這些人類在自然界中成為吸血鬼，並從更高能量的人類身上吸取能量。

That you are doing this at all should be a warning sign for all of you, but of course, so many do not realize this. Do not allow yourself to cavort with vampires because they will reduce your life energy and possibly provide you with demonic attachments. They still exist upon the planet, try as we may to remove them, they are agile and have good food sources in you. They have threatened to change the entire structure of human life on earth however now this is reduced and will change again after December 21. This will rid your planet of many of these attachments. They will die as they will not be able to stand the new energy level.

你們這樣做應該是對你們所有人的一個警告信號，但是當然，很多人沒有意識到這一點。不要允許你自己和吸血鬼鬼混，因為他們會減少你的生命能量，並可能給你帶來惡魔附體。它們仍然存在於這個星球上，儘管我們可能試圖去除它們，它們很靈活，並且在你們體內有良好的食物來源。他們威脅要改變地球上人類生命的整個結構，然而現在這種情況已經減少，並將在12月21日之後再次改變。這將使你們的星球擺脫許多這些連接。他們將會死去，因為他們將無法承受新的能量水平。

Those who attempt to help others who are not requesting help are interfering, attempting to dominate, not cognizant of the true nature of life upon earth, unaware that their attachments are attempting to create greater connection with other earthlings, particularly those of higher light. They see you as decrepit because of their own belief in decrepitude, they see you as lost because of their own belief that a person can be lost. They do not understand the truth of reality, they do not understand who is making them pursue the higher energetic others, they do not understand the meaning of benevolence because they are too arrogant to understand. And they do not understand that all are learning and growing and have internal guidance.

那些試圖幫助那些沒有請求幫助的人的人是在干涉、試圖支配、沒有認識到地球上生命的真正本質，沒有意識到他們的附屬物正試圖與其他地球人，特別是那些更高級的光創造更大的聯繫。他們把你看成是衰老的，因為他們相信衰老，他們把你看成是迷失的，因為他們相信一個人是可以迷失的。他們不理解現實的真相，他們不理解是誰讓他們追求精力更旺盛的他人，他們不理解仁慈的含義，因為他們太傲慢而不理解。他們不明白，所有的人都在學習和成長，都有內在的指導。

Me: So you're saying there's all kinds of wrong with what's going on here.

我:

所以你是說這裡發生的一切都是錯誤的。

Ivo: Yes. If you ask for help, it is because you believe you require help. When you understand you create your entire life and you can manifest whatever you want, do you then continue to believe you require help?

伊沃：是的。如果你尋求幫助，那是因為你認為你需要幫助。當你明白你創造了你的整個生活，你可以實現任何你想要的，然後你是否繼續相信你需要幫助？

Me: No.

我:

沒有。

Ivo: So you know this and are working to manifest the life you want. Anyone attempting to "help" you without understanding you or understanding their own belief in the weakness of humanity which is absurd, is only seeking to dominate and to take you off of your spiritual path.

伊沃：所以你知道這一點，並且正在努力實現你想要的生活。任何人試圖"幫助"你，卻不理解你，也不理解他們自己對於人性弱點的信仰，這是荒謬的，他們只是在尋求支配你，把你從你的精神道路上帶走。

Me: I get it.

我:

我明白了。

Ivo: They believe in the frailty of life, they believe in the negativity of humanity, they do not understand their desire to help is a question of demonic connection, they believe themselves to be so perfect that they cannot see their own life's path and where they, too, need to grow. Do you see what I mean?

伊沃: 他們相信生命的脆弱，相信人性的負面性，他們不明白他們幫助別人的願望是魔鬼聯繫的問題，他們相信自己是如此完美，以至於他們看不到自己的人生道路，也看不到自己需要成長的地方。你明白我的意思嗎？

Me: I figured you had a bomb to drop. Thanks, Ivo.

我:

我還以為你有炸彈要扔呢。謝謝，伊沃。

Ivo: There is nothing wrong with humanity on earth. It has been given false ideas about life and made to believe in its own weakness. You are not weak. You are part of God. You must all collectively stop believing in your own disempowerment, and start to believe that you are super beings, because you are. With super manifestation abilities. The reason you are incapable of stopping a habit, or an addiction, is because your frequency has not been raised high enough. What keeps your frequency low is a negative belief system.

伊沃：地球上的人類沒有任何錯誤。它被賦予了關於生命的錯誤觀念，並被迫相信自己的弱點。你並不軟弱。你是上帝的一部分。你們都必須停止相信你們自己的無能，開始相信你們是超級存在，因為你們就是超級存在。擁有超級顯化能力。你無法停止一個習慣或一種癮的原因，是因為你的頻率沒有提高到足夠高的水平。使你的頻率保持低的是一個消極的信念系統。

Me: Yes, that's true. If I overeat, it depends on my frequency and it has to be low for me to do it. Thank you Ivo.

我:

是的，沒錯。如果我吃得過多，這取決於我的頻率，而且必須要低才能做到。謝謝 Ivo。

Ivo: Do not connect with anyone who believes you to be flawed. You are on a path of raising your frequency to higher consciousness. They are not. The fact that they believe in a flawed human bears that out. Humanity on your world has a completely flawed image of itself. Completely flawed, and this has been part of the control agenda as well.

伊沃：不要和那些認為你有缺陷的人交往。你們正在一條提升你們頻率到更高意識的道路上。但事實並非如此。他們相信一個有缺陷的人類的事實證明了這一點。你們世界上的人類對自己有一個完全有缺陷的形象。完全有缺陷，這也是控制議程的一部分。

Me: I love you. I'm sure everyone else here loves you too.

我:

我愛你。我相信這裡的每個人都愛你。

Ivo: I love you as well. I even love the haters.

伊沃：我也愛你，我甚至愛那些討厭我的人。

Me: LOL

我: 哈哈

We covered a lot of points here in this discussion. Let's sum them up:

我們在這裡討論了很多要點，讓我們總結一下:

1.    Anyone who tries to fix you, rescue you without your asking for help is doing so because of the way they perceive you. Instead, they should change their image of you rather than trying to change you. Or change their belief system that makes them see you this flawed way. Often they are saying they care for you to allay their fears. They need to work on them, not on you.

任何試圖治癒你，不請求你幫助而拯救你的人，這樣做是因為他們對你的看法。相反，他們應該改變他們對你的印象，而不是試圖改變你。或者改變他們的信仰系統，讓他們以這種有缺陷的方式看待你。他們經常說他們關心你以減輕他們的恐懼。他們需要在這些方面下功夫，而不是在你身上

2.    People believe they are weak, frail and powerless. This is the Matrix talking. Humans are on the Godhead, able to manifest as part of God's power. You're not weak; you just believe you are. So change your beliefs. 

人們認為他們軟弱，虛弱，無能為力。這是《黑客帝國》裡的台詞。人類是在神性上，能夠顯化為上帝能力的一部分。你並不軟弱，你只是相信自己軟弱。所以，改變你的信仰吧

3.    Anyone who tries to pull you back into the Matrix because of their negative idea about you is not loving; they are controlling. 

任何因為他們對你的負面看法而試圖把你拉回母體的人不是愛，而是控制

4.    This is often done because of their own demonic attachments trying to keep their food source alive. 

這通常是因為他們自己的惡魔附體試圖保持他們的食物來源活著

5.    Humanity has been threatened with dropping off the soul matrix due to being too evil. Hopefully this is over with now and we haven't lost too many. 

由於太邪惡，人類被威脅要丟棄靈魂矩陣。希望這一切都結束了，我們沒有失去太多

6.    Don't let people help you unless you ask for it. Give them the right to say no as well. They may not be up to it or your higher self may be putting you in for a lesson in self empowerment. Case in point: When I thought I needed help, nobody was there for me. Why? Because I had to do it myself. So forgive people who are never there for you. 

不要讓別人幫助你，除非你自己要求。也給他們說不的權利。他們可能做不到這一點，或者你的更高自我可能正在給你上一堂關於自我授權的課。舉個例子: 當我認為我需要幫助的時候，沒有人在我身邊。為什麼？因為我不得不自己動手。所以，原諒那些從來不在你身邊的人吧

7.    Nobody is your higher power – you are! 

沒有人是你更高的力量-你才是

8.    You do not have to behave a certain way to help others feel less fearful. Their problem is their fear and that should be dealt with. 

你不必以某種特定的方式去幫助別人減少恐懼。他們的問題是他們的恐懼，這應該得到解決

9.    Negative thinkers and positive thinkers view the world and you completely differently. 

消極思想者和積極思想者對世界和你的看法完全不同

10.    Your perception of yourselves as imperfect comes from matrix manipulation. 

你們認為自己不完美的觀念來自於矩陣操縱

11.    What everyone is suffering from is too much Matrix. A Matrix mind sees problems and tries to fix them so it stops suffering. Fixing a problem from the ego is not a fix, only soul can heal. 

每個人都在遭受的是太多的黑客帝國。一個矩陣思維看到問題並試圖解決它們，這樣它就不再受苦。從自我中解決問題不是解決問題，只有靈魂才能治癒

12.    There's a big difference between being of higher consciousness and being arrogant. If you don't know what it is, assume you're being arrogant. Our other videos can help. Without knowing one, it's hard to know the other. 

有更高的意識和傲慢有很大的區別。如果你不知道它是什麼，那就假設你是自大的。我們的其他視頻可以提供幫助。不瞭解其中一個，就很難瞭解另一個

謝謝收聽！感恩祝福！

原文：https://www.pfcchina.org/xinrenyuedu/46664.html